Finding Normal

A provocative exploration of sexuality and identity in the digital age, Finding Normal delves into the lives of individuals using the internet to challenge sexual norms and redefine belonging.

In this groundbreaking work, Alexa Tsoulis-Reay takes readers on an intimate journey through the stories of people grappling with unique circumstances related to their sexuality. Based on her candid "What It's Like" interview series for New York magazine, Tsoulis-Reay immerses readers in the worlds of those who are forging connections, creating identities, and finding community in ways that push the boundaries of what's considered taboo.

Finding Normal celebrates the transformative power of our evolving digital landscape in helping people rewrite the scripts of their lives, while also warning of the dangers that come with seemingly limitless freedom online. Through these compelling accounts, Tsoulis-Reay illuminates the enduring human need for belonging and acceptance in a rapidly changing world. Like the search for happiness or purpose, the quest to find normal may be the definitive struggle of our time.